By: A Survivor Not a Victim
May 5, 2016
How did it impact your sexual life with your partner if you had one?
And if you didn’t have a partner, how did it impact your love life with your first lover after the incident?
My partner left shortly after I was raped to volunteer out of the country. We had a couple of intimate encounters, but I was still in shock from what happened to me. At this point, I can’t even, hmmm … “have fun with myself. “
They are coming back this month, and I am terrified about what will happen in the bedroom.
A Survivor Not a Victim 
Wow, I am sorry, that is hard. Yes, I fear that might happen to me.
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I agree. I tried to move on instantly because I wanted to claim my sex life back. I needed to be in control but I would have flashbacks. It wasn’t healthy for me so I stopped.
I never slept with my boyfriend again. We broke up because we lived in different countries and he was reluctant to come see me. When I’m ready again, I’ll make sure this person is someone I trust and understanding…
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