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I Came Forward, I Want To Press Charges & The DA Won’t Do Anything

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I was raped by my former roommate on February 14th 2016. I filed a police report.  Within less than 48 hours I was told that the DA would not be moving forward with the case.

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In fact,  I met with the DA this past Tuesday,  and it was confirmed that there was not even an attempt made to get a statement from my rapist.

 

Two weeks ago,  a judge granted a two year restraining order extention against my rapist because  (judges words) “My story was credible”. In fact,  on record and under oath,  the story of my rapist changed”.

I am just outraged.  I have no doubt in my mind that this dirt bag will do this again to someone.  And…..and, he works for the Department of children and families in Massachusetts!  His first day was 2 day’s after he raped me,  so he passed the background check.  When I told this to the DA, he was not concerned.

I refuse to give up, because I KNOW that this rapist knew EXACTLY what he was doing,  and I have  NO doubt in my mind that he will do it again. IF I had even the slightest bit of doubt,  even just a hair…I would drop it. But I don’t.

He didn’t accept no for an answer,  so why should I.  I’m going to do everything in my power to make sure that he can’t do this to anyone else EVER AGAIN!

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Owen Labrie – Convicted Statutory Rapist

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Owen Labrie

Age at time – 19

Tunbridge, Vermont

Sentence – 1 year prison

Brock Turner; Convicted Rapist…Don’t EVER Forget It

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Brock Turner has been convicted of raping an unconscious female behind a dumpster at a frat party. Two fellow male students caught him in the act, chased him down, and held him until police officers arrived on the scene.

Even though Brock Turner was found guilty, he was sentenced to only 6 MONTHS of jail time because it was in the opinion of the judge that, ““A prison sentence would have a severe impact on him. I think he will not be a danger to others.”

Brock Turner’s father want’s people to stop talking about his son being a rapist. He made the statement [in a letter where he was making the argument that his son should receive probation], “His life will never be the one that he dreamed about and worked so hard to achieve. That is a steep price to pay for 20 minutes of action out of his 20 plus years of life”.

Dan Turner (father of Brock Turner) went on to say, “He will never be his happy go lucky self with that easy going personality and welcoming smile”.

Seriously?!?! HIS life will never be the one he dreamed of? HE will never be HIS happy go lucky self? CRY ME A RIVER! He brutally raped a woman, and now just like almost all rapists, he is getting a slap on the wrist with only 6 months of jail time.

The poor victim. At the sentencing, the young woman asked the judge if she could address her attacker, Brock Turner, directly, and read a letter that she wrote. It is heart wrenching. Some things she said were,

 “The next thing I remember I was in a gurney in a hallway. I had dried blood and bandages on the backs of my hands and elbow. I thought maybe I had fallen and was in an admin office on campus. I was very calm and wondering where my sister was. A deputy explained I had been assaulted. I still remained calm, assured he was speaking to the wrong person. I knew no one at this party. When I was finally allowed to use the restroom, I pulled down the hospital pants they had given me, went to pull down my underwear, and felt nothing. I still remember the feeling of my hands touching my skin and grabbing nothing. I looked down and there was nothing. The thin piece of fabric, the only thing between my vagina and anything else, was missing and everything inside me was silenced. I still don’t have words for that feeling. In order to keep breathing, I thought maybe the policemen used scissors to cut them off for evidence.”

On that morning, all that I was told was that I had been found behind a dumpster, potentially penetrated by a stranger, and that I should get retested for HIV because results don’t always show up immediately.

So one year later, as predicted, a new dialogue emerged. Brock had a strange new story, almost sounded like a poorly written young adult novel with kissing and dancing and hand holding and lovingly tumbling onto the ground, and most importantly in this new story, there was suddenly consent. One year after the incident, he remembered, oh yeah, by the way she actually said yes, to everything, so.

Full letter here:

https://www.buzzfeed.com/katiejmbaker/heres-the-powerful-letter-the-stanford-victim-read-to-her-ra?utm_term=.bqRdYBZqr0#.fmjY1r5amy

During an n interview with The Washington Post on 6/6/16 Santa Clara District Attorney Jeff Rosen stated that, “To this day, the defendant denies what he did, Turner “preyed upon” his victim and displayed violence”.

I hope no one ever….ever forgets the name Brock Turner, and the fact that he is a brutal rapist who got off easy. I hope everyone who reads this shares it with someone, or everyone they know so that it will cycle and cycle throughout the media outlets for years to come. So that in the future when others are looking up information, the name “Brock Turner; Rapist” will always and forever be connected as one, identifying him as a rapist for life, because that is what he is, a filthy, disrespectful, depraved, deceitful, and remorseless RAPIST!

 

 

Hello My Name Is Rapist

” Hello, my name is Rapist,  and I raped my roommate on February 14th 2016. Why do you ask? Two reasons.

Reason number one…I’m not going to tell because that would be no fun.

Reason number two….because I knew that I would get away with it.  Who is going to believe that a successful middle aged man, with a great job history,  no criminal record,  and a Masters degree from an Ivy League University in the USA…. would be capable of raping someone?  No one,  that’s who! And guess what,  no one did! I still can’t believe that she was even able to get a restraining order on me. Do I care that that she didn’t want to sleep with me? Do I care that here word’s were “I will never sleep with you” Haha! Of course not, Because I am Rapist, and I get what I want.

Have I done this before?  I am not sharing that information.  Will I do it again?  What do you think?

I do have a wonderful job at a place that works with the vulnerable population.  My first day was two days after I raped my roommate,  so they will never find out about the domestic restraining order.

I am Rapist,  I  get what I want,  I get away with it,  and I always win.”

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The Fucking By My Rapist Continues

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You violated my body,  deep down to the depths of my soul.

You didn’t care that I said I would never sleep with you,  how long were you planning this? I don’t know?

You’re mad because the court removed you from the apartment,  and with good reason they had

But guess what buddy,  you are still on the lease,  you are responsible for payment , that is legal, so too bad.

Until I find a roommate,  that responsibility is yours

Whether you find it fair or not , ignored will be your deplores.

And should things go awry, and the landlord decides to vacate

Don’t for a second think that it is only my rental record that is subject to taint

We are both on the lease, so outcome effects us both

Only I get the the shit end of the stick, because of what you did to me, and what I continue to undergo

My life is torn apart, I am broken, tarnished, and on the decline

While you carry on, probably even reminiscing about that morning, jerking off to it, and living the life divine

 

Getting The Short End Of The Stick Continues!!!!!!!!!

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This sucks!!!! Everything sucks, and the hit’s just keep on coming! I have been looking for a roommate for a month now to no avail. Today I received a text from my landlord saying that he has only received half of the rent for this month, and to please let him know by the end of the day when he can expect the rest.

Now, my landlord has been understanding, he knows the situation, and I know regardless, he needs to get paid, so that is not where this is going. The ASSHOLE who raped me is still on the lease, therefor, he is still legally responsible for rent until he is no longer on the lease. I had a conversation with my landlord, we both do not want to get the courts involved, but have decided that if that is necessary, then we will.

I then have been in touch with BARCC today, and will be early next week. So far, it is looking like my options are very limited, a no options are looking to solve the immediate problem at hand .ie: getting my landlord his money asap. Even if I take this scumbag to small claims court, that will take forever to “potentially” get money, and that is only if they decide that I am owed it.

I am so FUCKING ANGRY!!! THIS ASSHOLE HAS MADE MY LIFE A LIVING HELL, AND THE SHIT LIST CONTINUES TO PILE UP!!! IT ISN’T FAIR!!!!!!!!!!!

You know something,  is it fair that he is legally responsible for rent while he isn’t living here…wahhhh, cry me a river!  Is it fair that he stuck his dick inside a passed out person who already told him that she would never sleep with him?

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