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RAPE: I Don’t Know How Much More Of This I Can Take

I am feeling the end of my breaking point!  The DA won’t charge my rapist, he wasn't even questioned,  nor was there even an an attempt made to get a statement from him.   During the restraining order extention hearings  (two of them ) his story changed,  mine has never changed . I am not … Continue reading RAPE: I Don’t Know How Much More Of This I Can Take

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July 21, 2016July 21, 2016Crime, Ma, Massachusetts, Massachusetts Suffolk County DA, No justice, No means no, Rape, Rape culture, Rape is not taken seriously, Suicide, Victim blaming6 Comments
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I Came Forward, I Want To Press Charges &The DA Won’t Do Anything

I was raped by my former roommate on February 14th 2016. I filed a police report.  Within less than 48 hours I was told that the DA would not be moving forward with the case. In fact,  I met with the DA this past Tuesday,  and it was confirmed that there was not even an … Continue reading I Came Forward, I Want To Press Charges &The DA Won’t Do Anything

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July 21, 2016January 16, 2019Change, Ma, Massachusetts, Massachusetts Department of Children and Families, No justice, No means no, Not fair, Rape, Rape culture, Rapist, Stop, Suffolk County DA Massachusetts, Victim blaming1 Comment
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How I Feel After Being Raped; The ABC’s

Awful Broken Choked  Damaged Emotional  Fearful  Guilty  Hurt Insignificant  Jittery  Kaput Lost Mutilated  Nervous  Overwhelmed  Paralyzed  Queasy Restless  Suicidal Tired  Undefinable Violated  Weak X - is his name ie THE RAPIST  Yucky Zero

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June 15, 2016Anger, Anxiety, Change, Depression, No hope, No justice, No means no, No more, PTSD, Rape, Rape culture, Sad, Sexual Assault, Stop, Stop rape, Suicide, Support, Survivor, Victim blaming5 Comments
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Brock Turner Rapist. .. Blaming College “Party Culture”

Full article http://abcnews.go.com/US/stanford-student-brock-turner-blames-party-culture-sexual/story?id=39702144 Brock Turner,  typical rapist as displayed in this article.  He blames peer pressure to drink and party culture for making a "bad decision ". Brock Turner  the rapist - "My poor decision-making and excessive drinking hurt someone that night, and I wish I could just take it all back" Rapists never admit … Continue reading Brock Turner Rapist. .. Blaming College “Party Culture”

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June 8, 2016June 8, 2016Brock Turner Rapist, Depression, End Rape Culture, Excuses, Rape, Rape culture, Sexual Assault, Stop protecting Rapists, Stop rape, Victim blamingLeave a comment
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More Debunked Rape Myth Statements

I can't stand these common "rape myth" statements... or any for that matter This article from Bustle is a good read. It debunks seven rape myths that convicted rapist Brock Turner's friend and rape apologist Leslie Rasmussen talked about in her "Character letter" Seriously,  not raping is as easy as a cup of tea! https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=share&v=oQbei5JGiT8

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June 8, 2016January 17, 2019assult, Change, No justice, No more, Not the victim's fault, Rape, Rape culture, Rape Myth, Sexual Assault, Stop, Victim blamingLeave a comment
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Stigma Hurts

I have never felt rape stigma so bad as I do now, trying to find a new roommate! I have been looking for a roommate since March 1st. It has not been an easy task. With the people that have ended up coming to see my apartment, and the people that I do like and … Continue reading Stigma Hurts

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April 19, 2016May 5, 2016Depression, dispair, Hope Lost, No hope, No more, Not fair, Rape, Rape Stigma, sa, So sad, Victim blaming, Why7 Comments

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