By: A Survivor Not a VictimMarch 26, 2016 This article, written by Carolyn Spring, gave me much to reflect on. While some of the information is helpful, I couldn't help but become furious when they say that flashbacks are a good sign. Seriously? I am an intelligent, well-educated woman, and I highly doubt that the author … Continue reading Flashbacks…A Good Thing? ??
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By: A Survivor Not a VictimMarch 25, 2016 I'm not scared of wolves.It's the wolves in sheep's clothing, I fear.Feigned, conniving, and deceitful is the true essence they hideBut with wolves, you see their true nature, no shame, no apologies, no lies.You are a wolf in sheep's clothing,The lowest of the low.What you deserve is … Continue reading Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing
Posted By: A Survivor Not a VictimMarch 24, 2016 Note from the Writer: This article is by Laura Berman, PhD Becoming Whole Again: Rediscovering Life After Rape By Laura Berman, PhD Published Apr 9, 2014 "Rape is one of the worst violations a person can suffer, and the scars can be everlasting — but you … Continue reading Rebuilding Your Life After Rape
By: A Survivor Not a VictimMarch 24, 2016 While I'm not feeling particularly positive or hopeful today, I felt the urge to create a less somber post. This blog primarily focuses on the grim facts, emotions, and consequences of rape and sexual assault. Nonetheless, it's essential to recognize that not everything has to be shrouded … Continue reading Silver Linings
By: A Survivor Not a VictimMarch 24, 2016 So, since I didn't get a rape kit, I was told to wait about a month to get STD testing done. I did. I have been so incredibly worried. It was bad enough that I was raped, and I'm fairly certain that he didn't use a condom. … Continue reading Thank Goodness!
By: A Survivor Not a VictimMarch 23, 2016 The joy in my life has ceased. A veil of tenebrosity ensues What has my life disparaged to How can one man incite so much anguish For a person should not have the kind of power over you Yet, when a person defiles you, that assertion does … Continue reading DARK AND WITHERING