By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 19, 2016 I have never felt the stigma so bad as I do now, trying to find a new roommate! I have been looking for a roommate since March 1st. It has not been an easy task. With the people that have ended up coming to see my apartment … Continue reading Stigma Hurts
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By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 18, 2016 The rapist that I formally lived with is still on my lease. I have had no luck so far in finding a new roommate (it must just be the time of year, as I have never had such a hard time before). I (we, but I got … Continue reading The Frustration Continues
By: A Survivor Not a VictimMarch 16, 2016 I cannot comprehend the society that we live in! Rape is the only crime where IF… and I mean IF…the victim comes forward and reports it, they are treated like a criminal. They are not taken seriously, and the main focus is, "Oh, but were you really … Continue reading Too Much Focus On “But Are They A Rapist?” And Not Enough On The Victim
By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 11, 2016 You violated my body, deep down to the depths of my soul. You didn't care that I said no and that I would never sleep with you. How long have you been planning this? I don't know. You're mad because the court removed you from the apartment, … Continue reading Life Continues to be Impacted by my Rapist
By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 8, 2016 This sucks!!!! Everything sucks, and the hits keep on coming! I have been looking for a roommate for a month now to no avail. Today, I received a text from my landlord saying that he has only received half of the rent for this month and to … Continue reading Getting The Short End Of The Stick Continues!!!!!!!!!
By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 3, 2016 I am really struggling with recovering from the rape that happened to me. I hate how I feel; I hate who I am right now. The facts: I was drunk, but that doesn't mean anything. I told this creep earlier, before I was too drunk, that I … Continue reading My Biggest Regret
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