I have never felt rape stigma so bad as I do now, trying to find a new roommate! I have been looking for a roommate since March 1st. It has not been an easy task. With the people that have ended up coming to see my apartment, and the people that I do like and … Continue reading Stigma Hurts
The rapist that I formally lived with is still on my lease. I have had no luck so far in finding a new roommate (it must just be the time of year, as I have never had such a hard time before). I (we, but I got his too) have been served a 10 day … Continue reading The Frustration Continues
I cannot comprehend the society that we live in! Rape is the only crime where IF......and I mean IF....the victim comes forward and reports it, they are treated like a criminal. They are not taken seriously, and the main focus is "Oh, but were you really raped? What were you wearing, were you drinking, doing … Continue reading Too Much Focus On “But Are They A Rapist?” And Not Enough On The Victim
You violated my body, deep down to the depths of my soul. You didn't care that I said I would never sleep with you, how long were you planning this? I don't know? You're mad because the court removed you from the apartment, and with good reason they had But guess what buddy, you are … Continue reading The Fucking By My Rapist Continues
This sucks!!!! Everything sucks, and the hit's just keep on coming! I have been looking for a roommate for a month now to no avail. Today I received a text from my landlord saying that he has only received half of the rent for this month, and to please let him know by the end … Continue reading Getting The Short End Of The Stick Continues!!!!!!!!!
I am really struggling with recovering from the rape that happened to me. I hate how I feel, I hate who I am right now. The facts: 1. I was drunk, but that doesn't mean anything. 2. I told this creep earlier before I was too drunk that I would never sleep with him. 3. … Continue reading My Biggest Regret