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If You Are Drunk, & Didn’t Give Prior Consent, it’s RAPE

By: A Survivor Not a VictimApri 7, 2016 I still struggle with my rape every day. Yes, I was drunk when he raped me. Actually, I was passed out and woke up to him on top and inside me—bottom line. I DID NOT GIVE CONSENT! As a matter of fact, earlier on, before I was … Continue reading If You Are Drunk, & Didn’t Give Prior Consent, it’s RAPE

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April 7, 2016November 24, 2023Abuse, assult, Change, consent, Dealing with rape, drunk sex is still rape, enough is enough, Helpless, no, No means no, No more, Rape, Rape culture, StopLeave a comment
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My Biggest Regret

By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 3, 2016 I am really struggling with recovering from the rape that happened to me. I hate how I feel; I hate who I am right now. The facts:  I was drunk, but that doesn't mean anything.  I told this creep earlier, before I was too drunk, that I … Continue reading My Biggest Regret

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April 3, 2016November 24, 2023Fear, Hopeless, No means no, Not fair, Rape, RegretLeave a comment
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A List Of Not What You Can Do To Prevent Getting Raped But…

By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 3, 2016 This is great! Education regarding rape is all about "Things that you can do to prevent yourself from being raped." This is terrible because it shows that society accepts rape. It re-enforces "victim blaming" when the fact of the matter is, getting raped is not a result … Continue reading A List Of Not What You Can Do To Prevent Getting Raped But…

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April 3, 2016November 24, 2023Advocacy, Awareness, Change, Education, End rape, No means no, Problem, Rape3 Comments
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TOO MANY RAPE VICTIMS

By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 3, 2016 So, I have been slowly telling family and friends what happened to me. Last night, I decided to tell someone I wasn't sure I should. But I told her because I trusted her. The really sad thing is, after I told her, she told me that she … Continue reading TOO MANY RAPE VICTIMS

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April 3, 2016November 24, 2023Change, Disgust, No means no, No more, Rape, Sexual Assault, Stop, When will it end8 Comments
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Who Am I

By: A Survivor Not a VictimMarch 31, 2016 Who am I? For this, I don't know anymore.But I am a woman who refuses to remain silent, that's for sure.I was never one to back down in defeatBut the extent of your all-encompassing deceit,I am powerless to educe justice for the crime that occurred.And how could … Continue reading Who Am I

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March 31, 2016November 24, 2023Change, Hope, No justice, No means no, Poem, Powerless, Questions, Rape, Rape culture, Recovery, Sad, Sexual Assault, Victim blamingLeave a comment
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Watch Why This Man Thinks Rape is Hilarious (Stop Rape culture)

By: A Survivor Not a VictimMarch 29, 2016 I know that my blog talks mostly about women being raped. I don't do it on purpose. I'm a woman, who was raped, and I talk a lot about my experience and feelings. There are far too many men that get raped, and I think, realistically, the … Continue reading Watch Why This Man Thinks Rape is Hilarious (Stop Rape culture)

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