By: A Survivor Not a VictimMay 1, 2016 Healing- oh, it is such a strange process. It's like taking one step forward and two steps back. I live in the apartment where it all happened. I have two dogs and wasn't planning on moving because I don't have the funds to move. I'm constantly haunted … Continue reading Hauntings
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By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 29, 2016 I know I cannot control the universe, but I have been dealt such a bad hand. I'm running out of time and options to find a roommate to fill my apartment, and my rapist refuses to pay rent even though he is still on the lease. My … Continue reading So Scared
By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 24, 2016 Today, I spent the majority of the afternoon researching this topic to write a post about how rape destroys the lives of the victim and their families and friends. Well, I was shocked when I saw what that search result yielded! This led me to a … Continue reading Rape Destroys Lives
By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 22, 2016 Since I was raped, I have been experiencing horrific nightmares! Sometimes they are about him, other times they are about men that I know are assaulting me, but last night was the most disturbing nightmare that I have ever had in my life. EVER! I can still … Continue reading My Dreams Have Gotten Out Of Control
By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 19, 2016 I have never felt the stigma so bad as I do now, trying to find a new roommate! I have been looking for a roommate since March 1st. It has not been an easy task. With the people that have ended up coming to see my apartment … Continue reading Stigma Hurts
By: A Survivor Not a VictimApril 18, 2016 The rapist that I formally lived with is still on my lease. I have had no luck so far in finding a new roommate (it must just be the time of year, as I have never had such a hard time before). I (we, but I got … Continue reading The Frustration Continues
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