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Rape; A Father Not Caring

By: A Survivor Not a VictimJune 25, 2016 I have to admit that I have to find this hilarious because if I don't, there is no way that I can cope. My father and I have not had the best relationship in my life. The past few years, it has been better. He was struggling … Continue reading Rape; A Father Not Caring

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June 25, 2016November 14, 2023Encouragement, Family, Friends, Hope, Love, My father doesn't care that I was raped, Rape, Support, You deserve moreLeave a comment
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I’m Never Going To Be Ok…Can’t Believe This Happened Today

By: A Survivor Not a VictimJune 17, 2016 Today started off wonderfully. It is sunny and warm. I was happy this morning (which is very rare these days ). Around 11:30 I left the office to run to the grocery store to grab something for lunch, and a coupleof other things. I was almost at … Continue reading I’m Never Going To Be Ok…Can’t Believe This Happened Today

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June 17, 2016November 14, 2023I saw my rapist today, No justice, Not fair, Panic attack, PTSD, Rape2 Comments
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How I Feel After Being Raped; The ABC’s

By: A Survivor Not a VictimJune 15, 2016 Awful Broken Choked  Damaged Emotional  Fearful  Guilty  Hurt Insignificant  Jittery  Kaput Lost Mutilated  Nervous  Overwhelmed  Paralyzed  Queasy Restless  Suicidal Tired  Undefinable Violated  Weak eXploited   Yucky Zero  

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June 15, 2016November 14, 2023Anger, Anxiety, Change, Depression, No hope, No justice, No means no, No more, PTSD, Rape, Rape culture, Sad, Sexual Assault, Stop, Stop rape, Suicide, Support, Survivor, Victim blaming5 Comments
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Today Is My Birthday…But It Doesn’t Even Matter

By: A Survivor Not a VictimJune 12, 2016 Today is my 33rd birthday, but it doesn't matter; I'm not celebrating. I have no plans; I made no plans. I'm broken beyond belief because of what he has done to me. No justice, no responsibility, and he is free to do it again to some other … Continue reading Today Is My Birthday…But It Doesn’t Even Matter

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June 12, 2016November 14, 2023Birthday, Depression, PTSD, Rape, Sad, Suicide7 Comments
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What Just Happened?!?!??

By: A Survivor Not a VictimJune 6, 2016 Alright, so I have these neighbors who live behind me. A couple in their 40s with three children, two of whom live at home. I'm friendly with the wife. She is very nice, strong-willed, and loud. I do hear this couple fight all the time. Sometimes, it … Continue reading What Just Happened?!?!??

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June 6, 2016November 13, 2023domestic violence3 Comments
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Can’t Even Describe How I Am Feeling

By: A Survivor Not a VictimJune 2, 2016 I know that it has been a long time since I posted, and I have not been posting daily as usual. I have been in such a dark, dark place. It has been just about four months since he raped me. My dreams, flashbacks, sleeping issues, concentration, … Continue reading Can’t Even Describe How I Am Feeling

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June 2, 2016November 22, 2023Depression, despair, Sad2 Comments

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